Need Advice!?

Hello all, I really need some good advice. I'll really appreciate your comments. Like I mentioned on my previous blog, my boyfriend and I have been together for a long while now, but we are not yet formally engaged. According to him, he plans to move to my hometown when he leaves the service and he wants me to move in with him. He reaffirms this idea practically every time we speak, but now I've heard from a mutual friend that he is submitting his resume to a contracting company works in Kuwait. He hasn't ever even mentioned this to me. I am really annoyed at the lie more than anything. I feel like he is holding on to me while at the same time looking for something else (or better). I don't know how to bring this up or even if I should. I love him but all this secrecy is making me insecure and it is driving me nuts. This is the first time I am beginning to suspect this long distance thing is not going to work out. I could handle better when I thought he was coming here soon (December) but now I am afraid he might never come and I am wasting my time. What do you think I should do?